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Disability support
Did you know that you can apply for disability living allowance (PIP) if your child needs help above and beyond what would typically be...

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Jul 5, 20242 min read


Achieving better connections
Last year friend and colleague Al Coates and I wrote a parenting course for a local authority to use as their default training for...

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Jul 3, 20241 min read


Mindful parenting
I’ve been doing a lot of driving lately - a lot - and I’ve been listening to audiobooks to make the most of the time. So far I’m still on...

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Jun 23, 20241 min read


You can't do everything
I don’t believe we can do everything. Actually, I don't believe we can do anything either. I have my limitations and I believe we all do....

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Jun 10, 20242 min read


Parental presence
This to me is parental presence. Everything we do (and don't do) influencing their development, influencing their values, influencing the...

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May 31, 20241 min read


Get a dog
If you have a teenager, or a handful of teenagers, you'll know that teenagers aren't very often pleased to see us. If your self worth was...

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Apr 27, 20241 min read


Triggers and glimmers
Sometimes we know how we want to deal with things as parents. We know what we need to do and what we should avoid doing. We can picture...

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Apr 26, 20242 min read


Self care
Being told to make space for self care when things are difficult can feel shallow & it can highlight just how little people understand...

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Apr 18, 20241 min read


It's okay to pay a high price
“It’s okay to pay a price if you’re buying something valuable.” This section is from a book by Eli Lebowitz and Haim Omer. It’s about the...

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Apr 14, 20241 min read


Adopting siblings
Today is world siblings day. When children can’t live with their parents, the decision whether to keep brothers and sisters together in a...

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Apr 10, 20242 min read


Realistic therapeutic parenting
Parenting is hard. Really hard. Therapeutic parenting is beyond hard. In all the therapeutic parenting advice (specific to...

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Apr 7, 20242 min read
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