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Now you see me...
I saw this on Bluesky and was very moved. It's hard living with children who were hurt in the most awful ways and still respond from that...

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Nov 25, 20241 min read


Say yes to the feelings
This right here is the key to therapeutic parenting - saying yes to the feelings (or ideas, or thoughts, or wishes, or drives) while also...

elainenichollsnvr
Aug 20, 20242 min read


Look beyond behaviour
What a beautiful illustration by Hazel Mead. Reminding us to always to consider what's going on underneath the surface, to look beyond...

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Aug 12, 20241 min read


I'll see it when I believe it
I love this quote from Phil Stutz - psychotherapist in the netflix documentary "Stutz" - well worth a watch! One of the trickiest but...

elainenichollsnvr
Apr 12, 20241 min read
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