elainenichollsnvrNov 232 min readNVR - evidence base and adaptabilityNVR as a parenting approach was developed in the 1990s to help parents take a firm stance around harmful behaviours - like drugs,...
elainenichollsnvrNov 191 min readWhat's the story?The stories we tell ourselves matter. Whether emotions shape our narrative or our narrative shapes our emotions is up for debate. But one...
elainenichollsnvrNov 161 min readFrom 'carnage' to calmFinished an incredible journey with a neurodivergent family this week. We started working together about a year ago. At that point every...
elainenichollsnvrSep 212 min readNVR parenting - warm and firmDeciding where to set our expectations for our children can be tricky when there's trauma, disabilities, and other things going on like...
elainenichollsnvrJul 282 min readThe language of children's harmful behaviourThe terminology around children's harmful behaviour is tricky and language matters. The language we use influences whether families...
elainenichollsnvrJul 92 min readKind storiesThis is a really hard one for parents/carers of children who struggle to regulate their emotions or manage their behaviour in safe and...
elainenichollsnvrJul 21 min readAchieving better connectionsLast year friend and colleague Al Coates and I wrote a parenting course for a local authority to use as their default training for...
elainenichollsnvrApr 171 min readSelf careBeing told to make space for self care when things are difficult can feel shallow & it can highlight just how little people understand...