Relationship gestures - a fancy term for all the things we do that keep us deeply connected to our children - are fundamental to NVR. A...

The terminology around children's harmful behaviour is tricky and language matters. The language we use influences whether families...

This to me is parental presence. Everything we do (and don't do) influencing their development, influencing their values, influencing the...

If you have a teenager, or a handful of teenagers, you'll know that teenagers aren't very often pleased to see us. If your self worth was...

Being told to make space for self care when things are difficult can feel shallow & it can highlight just how little people understand...

“It’s okay to pay a price if you’re buying something valuable.” This section is from a book by Eli Lebowitz and Haim Omer. It’s about the...

Parenting is hard. Really hard. Therapeutic parenting is beyond hard. In all the therapeutic parenting advice (specific to...