elainenichollsnvrSep 212 min readNVR parenting - warm and firmDeciding where to set our expectations for our children can be tricky when there's trauma, disabilities, and other things going on like...
elainenichollsnvrSep 121 min readIf the only tool we have is a hammer...If the only tool you have is a hammer, it's tempting to treat every problem as though it were a nail. A quote often attributed to Abraham...
elainenichollsnvrAug 301 min readBreatheWhen things are going well it's easier to be intentional in our parenting. It's much more of a challenge when we're out of our window of...
elainenichollsnvrAug 272 min readAlice's UmbrellaHuman beings learn by experience - things going well and things going not so well. It’s tempting to feel as though we need to say...
elainenichollsnvrJul 21 min readAchieving better connectionsLast year friend and colleague Al Coates and I wrote a parenting course for a local authority to use as their default training for...
elainenichollsnvrJun 301 min readThe measure of parenting successA quote by lived experience trauma therapist Glenn Patrick Doyle - "We're not ourselves when we're triggered. We become who we think we...